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Wake-up Call

February 6, 2014 by Cynthia Stock Leave a Comment

I confess. I called myself a feminist in the early 70s. The focus of that label centered on equal rights, sexual freedom, access to birth control, and abortion. In college I met a fellow who told me if I wanted to date him I needed to be on the Pill. I didn’t see that as sexual freedom at all, just another Y-chromosome telling me what to do with my body. I moved on, got an IUD, and rallied in support of Roe v. Wade.

Today I look at the insidious movement to turn back time and shudder with amazement and fear. Amazement that young women today seem unconcerned about forces at work seeking to take control of their most private, personal decisions. Fear that so many people are verbal and passionate and self-righteous about doing so.

 Then I picked up When She Woke, by Hillary Jordan, and amped up my anxiety. I believe more people need to read this novel today. Jordan creates a world in which radical conservatives rule the country. The laws of the land are extreme end-results of the trend I see in modern attitudes. Hannah Payne aborts the child conceived during her affair with a well-known, married leader of a megachurch. When her act is discovered, she is sentenced to sixteen years of “chroming,” a process which turns her skin red. The Scarlet Letter in the extreme. All criminals are subject to such punishment with crimes being color coded. There is no need for imprisonment when the color of your skin defines who you are and what you have done.

When She Woke allows the reader to accompany Hannah on her quest to find a new life and redefine herself as a woman. Raised in a fundamentalist home, she must reconcile her faith with the cruelty and prejudice she encounters as a Red. Even more difficult is her break from the traditions of a rigid social upbringing. She learns to take control, make her own decisions, and not judge herself as she escapes the oppression of her family and community. How relieved was I to reassure myself Hannah’s life occurred in a fictitious world? Not much.

Enter the 21st century and a “Perspective” published in the Jan. 16, 2014 New England Journal of Medicine called “Physicians and the (Woman’s) Body Politic,” by Alta Charo, J.D. The essay sites numerous cases in which the law supports the incarceration, admission to mental institutions, or forced medical/surgical therapies of pregnant women claiming protection of the unborn as justification. State laws targeting abortion providers have burdened them with restrictions deemed “unwarranted and unjustified” by the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. And then there is the transvaginal ultrasound, mandated in an effort to keep women from choosing abortion. Invasive, dehumanizing, it is a diagnostic test that should be decided upon by the patient with the physician. A legislator in a state, or the nation’s, capitol cannot know the circumstance of every pregnant woman. It is ludicrous to pass general legislation for health care that is driven by the individual patient. Would there ever be a law mandating someone engaged in high risk social behavior be tested for Hepatitis B or HIV? A law regulating eating and BMI?

In When She Woke, the Novembrists are members of a group of rebel-activists helping Hannah escape a community where she will be ostracized and abused. When asked why they do what they do, the spontaneous response is: “It’s personal.”  Sexuality, pregnancy, and child-bearing. Personal choices. Not to be influenced, regulated, and interfered with by outside forces. When She Woke is a wake-up call, a warning about the possibilities of what could happen in the atmosphere of today’s politics and voter distraction.

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Filed Under: Daily Politics, Health Care Tagged With: abortion, Hillary Jordan, When She Woke

Steubenville and Feminism

December 3, 2013 by Cynthia Stock Leave a Comment

I love The Walking Dead. Once I get past the gore, I see it mirror the brutality of a modern world. A world, where in one country, a woman is raped every 20 minutes.

Amidst the rehash of and a promise to appeal the Steubenville rape trial verdict, I ask myself “Where is the outrage?” What, in our culture, has allowed us to generate people who have so little regard for their fellow human beings? Do the cavalier personas exhibited by impaired teen-agers violating a passive victim illustrate a sort of zombie apocalypse? Living, cognitive humans treated another person like a thing. Without empathy. Without sympathy. Without compassion. Is this type of behavior symptomatic of a society infected with a pandemic of maleficence?

I ask “Where are the women?” Where are the young girls of the victim’s social group? By their lack of action, they behaved with complicity. Was there no one to stand up for the victim? For their futures, they should scream for real justice and watch in shock as verdicts and light sentences define their value as assessed by this tragedy set in Anytown, USA.

 What happened to feminism? Yes, dated, outrageous, but angry, bra-burning feminism! Forty years ago, young women associated that term with choices, not just about birth control and abortion, but careers, marriage, buying a home, living independently, competing, achieving, and fighting back. I remember a nurse friend of mine helping another nurse, abused by her husband, move out of her home in the middle of the night. Women supporting women. Is feminism dormant? Or is it so changed that its modern focus on climbing the corporate ladder and the economic indicators of success has marginalized the common woman. She comes from a modest background, hopes to get to college, graduates with a $40,000 college debt. She aspires to live alone, buy a car, and have a little left over. She is the one with the right to jog alone at night without being touched and without being labeled as “asking for it.”

Where were the parents?  In the late sixties, I hosted a party planned strategically on a night when I knew my parents would be away. We snuck a few tastes of liquor, watering it down so the level in the bottle didn’t drop. I considered myself defiant and daring. I didn’t realize how well my mother knew me. She mastered the skill of paying attention. Two hours after my friends arrived, my parents did as well. Unexpectedly. Something I had done, something I said, too many phone calls by a person who usually talked to just one or two friends, alerted Mom’s radar.

 Our children are blitzed by movies and television with adult content at a time when parents seem less and less present as parents. When did it become all right to have hormone-enraged teen-agers party without supervision?

In The Walking Dead, a human knows where he stands when he is surrounded by “biters” or “walkers.” They eat. They survive. It is among the humans that each character must watch his back. Welcome to the teen culture of Steubenville.

 

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Filed Under: Daily Politics, Human Connections, Moral Compass

Honoring a President

October 28, 2013 by Cynthia Stock Leave a Comment

In honor of the fiftieth anniversary of the assassination of President John F. Kennedy, I decided to read Stephen King’s 11/23/63. Before starting to read, I revisited memories from that time as a twelve year old with little political awareness aside from the fear that permeated my home during the Cuban Missile Crisis.

The day of the assassination, everyone I asked remembered, as I did, being dismissed from either school or work. My mom taught reading at a Catholic Remedial Reading Clinic. A priest in obvious distress announced what had happened and sent everyone home. Our junior high school principal’s voice broke over the intercom. He couldn’t disguise his tears. He told of the assassination and declared school dismissed. I usually walked home from school, but that day my mom picked me up. Somehow she knew she needed to do so. I sensed, but did not comprehend, that something life altering had happened.

I vaguely remember Jack Ruby shooting Lee Harvey Oswald, live, in black and white. My family huddled around the television in the basement and watched the drama, unscripted, unpretentious, as it occurred in real time. It wasn’t like television today. No blood.  No guts. Maybe a puff of smoke?  A wiry, little man crumpled to the ground. A swarm of men subdued the shooter. Anarchy, a word which meant nothing to me, might have seemed closer to the lives of ordinary people after that televised event.

What stuck in my mind was the caisson transporting President Kennedy’s body. I watched the infamous riderless or caparisoned horse, a tradition in ceremonies for fallen soldiers dating back to Genghis Khan. The stirrups housed boots placed backwards in them. Walter Conkrite voiced a compelling narrative. He commented that the skittish horse seemed to not want to complete his journey. I thought the horse symbolized a world that didn’t want to believe our president had died.

My mom celebrates another birthday in October. It seems her wisdom grows exponentially with every year she ages. I had never asked her how Kennedy’s death affected her. She answered with succinct wisdom: “When you remember exactly where you were when something happens, it is an historical event. For me, the first time was Pearl Harbor. The second was Kennedy’s assassination.” She continued. “Even if people didn’t agree with him or vote for him, they felt optimistic because of his ideals.” My parents had supported him. My aunt, a staunch Republican, had too. Mom recalled a pall over the country comparable to the nation in mourning post 9/11. “You don’t expect an assassination in your lifetime.” Mom knew the name of the horse that had pulled Kennedy’s coffin through the streets of the capitol. She also knew that Black Jack, a half-Morgan, was named for General John J. Pershing.

My best friend, Gina, described an initial buzz in her household. Her father, a nuclear physicist, reacted because of the implications for his profession. Her mother responded as a woman and a mother with concerns for Mrs. Kennedy and her children. Gina remembered a subdued hush in her neighborhood in Pittsburgh. Children stayed inside. People displayed flags. And the world waited for what would happen next.

When I bought 11/23/63, I had stopped reading Stephen King. I didn’t think he could top Salem’s Lot, The Shining, The Stand, It, or Misery.  How much imagination can one man have? The mere heft of the book presented reading it as a daunting task. At over eight hundred pages, I knew this would be no two-day-nose-in-book venture. It took me several days interrupted by work, school, and daily travails to finish, and several more days for the contents to percolate in my head. Weeks later driving to the gym, the brewing epiphany hit me. King’s novel about the possibility of time travel was so brilliantly executed it became a portal for the reader. I visited web sites that discussed the extensive research Mr. King did to construct a credible portrayal of the 60’s. He created magic. The settings established themselves as characters. His attention to the details of clothing, social mores, street names, architecture, and, of course, music transported this reader in time and place. The more I read, the more I experienced the cultural immersion of a time traveler.

Al Templeton shows Jake Epping/George Amberson the gateway to the past. Due to illness, Templeton realizes he can’t carry out his plan to stop the Kennedy assassination. Al provides Jake with the information and the means to complete an act that will change the course of history. Ever cautious, Jake does a trial run and facilitates the death of an abusive husband and father. He returns to his present and confronts the basic law of time travel: Changing the past results in unpredictable outcomes. When Templeton dies, Jake makes peace with it and decides to follow through with Al’s plan.

There the history lesson begins. Mr. King takes us to Dallas and Ft. Worth and gives us a sense of the economics and politics of the time. He depicts Lee Harvey Oswald as a skinny, abusive man with mommy issues. His mother, Marguerite, interferes with and taunts her son. The group Jake observes could easily be labeled a terrorist cell today. As the reader becomes privy to Jake’s meticulous planning, the writing illuminates the dynamics that lead up to Kennedy’s death. History comes alive. And the reader enjoys an alternative ending.

Many theories persist about the assassination of JFK. This novel shifts the focus away from the question of “who” to the “what ifs.” Had Kennedy not been killed would the United States still have amassed $500 billion in arms sales during the Viet Nam War? Would the Peace Corps have been as successful? Would the Federal Reserve have been restructured to prevent the ruling powers from manipulating the economy? Would Camelot have been a sustainable ideal?

Because I live near Dallas and have worked with doctors who trained at Parkland, I feel a second-hand closeness to that day in 1963. I walk by the book depository with trepidation and walk along the grassy knoll expecting to hear shots and to see ghosts. I miss the security of thinking things like that don’t happen in my country. I long for a leader who inspires with words like: “Ask not what your country can do for you–ask what you can do for your country.”

“Anybody here seen my old friend John…I just looked around and he’s gone.” Dion

 

 

 

 

 

 

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